Midweek update II

One week later - I have not been able to keep up the blog in the interim. And have ten minutes now to report.

Last Wednesday - a lunchtime quickie with A, very brief thanks to her being late. But still most excellent fucking.

Thursday - A again, for a couple of hours. Lots of talk, lots of fucking, all fairly standard. She remains my favourite fuck of the moment.

Friday - D. Under interrogation I told her about A, J, and K. This was after some serious fucking, including anal. Then the tears and recriminations. And then I went down on her and she came spectacularly hard, I am sure because of the emotional stress and fear that it might be the last time, etc.

Memorial Day Weekend - nothing but the wife.

Tuesday - D. First talk, then oral, fucking, blowjob, more fucking, anal. If it wasn't for the emotional overinvestment she really would be the perfect mistress. I was meant to meet A in the evenign but she had to cancel, so I had a long conversation in a dive bar with K. No sex, but a few kisses.

Wednesday - nice little session with the wife this morning.

Tomorrow, I am set to see A in the late afternoon, and perhaps D at lunchtime.

Midweek update

A fairly quiet week so far. Monday afternoon I spend with A in a hotel room - a little under three hours. Straight into fucking with me on top, which in later discussion we both agreed is unjustly denigrated as boring. It is really her favorite position. Then we took a break. Then I fingered her and gave her a rimming, and we fucked some more. By using my hand to apply some extra pressure on her clit while fucking I helped her to come wildly around my cock, which was a lot of fun.

Next I think was a pretty extensive blowjob, and then I went down on her for a while. And then a final fuck, me on top again. Wait, but A also asked me to fuck her from behind - turns out that she has usually found that painful because she feels a man's cock banging into her cervix and that is unpleasant. But it was fine with me she said. I finished on top again, pulling out and coming all over her. She was amused because I came a little and told her "I'm not done yet" and then, with a little help from her, came a lot more, and very vigorously. Wonderful.

So that was a really excellent afternoon. Lunchtime today we are meeting for a quickie to recap the highlights!

Yesterday I spend mainly with C - fucking interrupted by a phone call, so we got to start all over again. I did go down on her just for little while, but of course if I suddenly become a fanatic for that with her, and also deploy many new techniques, she may become a bit suspicious. That would be bad. So with C it will take a while to make things more exciting. The fucking, though, is really good, and of course I have no problem getting and staying hard, and can come easily. That doesn't seem to be reliably true with anyone else, though of course I haven't really tried operating without some pharmaceutical assistance for a while.

Apart from a lunchtime quickie with A I have nothing set today or tomorrow. Friday, assuming it comes off, I should have three hours or so with D, the blowjob queen. Once the weekend is over, it will be only two weeks or so until C leaves again, and I can step up the pace. But it may be time for a parting of the ways with D - I don't have the enthusiasm that I had before. Still, Friday may rekindle that.

An uneventful weekend

A weekend with nothing but the wife, and not a lot of activity on that front either. On Saturday morning C came back from a run hot and sweaty, which I like, and offered to let me fuck her from behind standing up which I did for a while. She was pretty tight but good. After a while we moved to the bed for standard fucking with me on top.

Today will be more fun. C is out running fight now and maybe will return for another sweaty fuck in a little while. This afternoon I am meeting A for three hours or so in a hotel room. A has complained a little about soreness after our sessions, so perhaps I will keep the hard grinding to a minimum and spend a lot of time eating her out, and also rimming, which I haven't done yet but which she says she likes a lot. I think with A we will get round to anal at some point, as she isn't totally against the idea - but she is a small woman so it may be that it can never be anything but painful for her.

Beyond today things look pretty empty - but I am planning to spend at least a few hours with D on Friday.

Hard to keep up

Right, so now it is late on Friday. K came here on Thursday morning and we had a couple of hours together, but she was obviously a bit tense and so not able to orgasm even though I worked fairly hard at that, orally. But a lot of good fucking all the same, and an entirely honest and delightful time.

This morning I went to see J and we had a great time - exceptional fucking, especially from behind. I also spent a while sucking and licking her clit, which was a lot of fun. But it was the fucking that was spectacular this morning - she can take a lot of pounding. I am slightly concerned that there is some deep and disturbing reason why I find it preferable to fuck her from behind, but as she enjoys that at lot and I think that is also the only position in which she has come from fucking with me, perhaps there is no issue here.

A little shopping, and then home to await C, who arrived in time for us to have a really good fuck before the kid came home from school. Me on top, then her on top, some cocksucking, more fucking, eventually a big ejaculatory orgasm in her mouth. I love her, which is not true of anyone else I fuck. She comes easily from fucking, which is also not true of anyone else, really, though A approximates. Today I had a continuous low-level orgasm with her, and I suppose there were times when I was holding back - but also times when I was actively seeking to spray. Net result - little orgasms, some ejaculations, at least according to C who said she could taste my come, and what I thought was pretty much the final orgasm and ejaculation. But then I was still hard and wanted more, and C kindly jerked me off, sucked me, and I came again, a lot. Kept coming too when jerked off some more. Very intense, strange, deep, powerful. Love does make a difference.

I would look for more tonight, but jetlag has deprived me of that chance. Still, I hope we will fuck some more over the weekend. And then A on Monday.

Tuesday morning

So shortly after the kids left for school D came by, and stayed for a little under six hours. Lots of oral sex, lots of fucking, toast and coffee, more oral, more fucking. The most intense part for me was the blowjobs - two separate times when I sat up and spread my legs and D lay between them and went to work on my cock. She is far and away the best I have ever had. I didn't ejaculate either time, but had a whole series of the shuddering, dry orgasms that seems to have become almost standard when she sucks my cock. I go pretty crazy.

Fairly early on I was fucking her and pulled out to come on her, and only half-came. Then I jerked off a bit and she asked me to come on her face. Now I don't really get the facial cumshot as a piece of pornography, and I have never wanted to do it, or asked to do it. But D asked me, and I obliged, and immediately found it very erotic - I came a lot, in her eyes and nose and mouth, on her neck, in her hair. I think we will both remember that for a long time.

I came again later in her ass.

But that was it for Tuesday, and today (Wednesday) I have had nothing but phone sex with D this morning. Really, it is already Thursday, and K will be here in a few hours for a little session before she and I go to work. Meanwhile M, who I have not had any contact with for a couple of months at least, found me on IM and we then chatted on the phone for a while. She is running a string of guys for casual sex, but as she doesn't fuck it is all 'making out', as she puts it, ie jerking them off, kissing, having them go down on her, blowing them, etc. She never orgasms except when masturbating, but I don't think she is demanding enough of these guys. I suspect she is like K: she takes a long time to come, finds it a bit difficult to relax, is a little shy at just taking what she needs. If I could have a go at her, I would show her what can reasonably be expected of a guy, what level of attention and devotion is possible, how much I enjoy going down on a woman and eating her out, and so on. All the things that J and D and A and K have learned from me.

K, in an e-mail, told me that she has a threesome set for next week, so I will have to quiz her about that and report back. She will be fun for the guys, but I am worried that she won't have too much fun herself. Still, she is obviously out to experience everything she can, and this is surely an experience for her, however it turns out.

The sky is just beginning to lighten to the east, so it really is Thursday. That means that my temporary single parent existence will come to an end tomorrow with C's return. I don't know when she and I will get to fuck, but I hope I can turn it into something special, using the 'long abstinence' as an excuse to indulge in a lot more foreplay, or afterplay, ie to begin the task of spicing the sex up between us as much as can be done without raising suspicions.

Friday I am set to see J for a couple of hours in the morning. So the tally for the last week and a bit will be, if I remember everything:

Thursday morning - J
Thursday afternoon - A
Friday morning - K
Friday night/Saturday morning - D
Saturday lunchtime - A
Sunday morning - D
Monday morning - A
Tuesday morning - D
Wednesday - nothing but phone sex with D
Thursday morning - K
Friday morning - J

This, I am pretty sure, is the busiest I have ever been.

Internet hook-up sites reviewed

Of the women I have hooked-up with for sex in the last several months, all but one I have met through Craigslist. D, I met through Lavalife - but Lavalife has produced what felt like near-misses, including S, who I have met and had lunch with, drinks with, etc but have not yet fucked. Ashley Madison, though it seems like it ought to be productive, has never really come through.

CL is crazy, freaky, and full of fakes and flakes. But A, who I think is about as perfect a hook-up as one could want (apart from the unmentionable distinguishing marks) is a clear example of a woman using CL to do exactly what I am doing, ie practice being a liar, cheat, and adulterer.

CL is free. As far as I can tell, a man would get nowhere on Lavalife or Ashley Madison without buying credits and using them to contact women. My profile on Lava has perhaps generated a couple of 'smiles' in several months; my profile on Ashley Madison has produced a couple of 'winks' and a couple of collect messages. Women, in other words, post their profiles and sit back and wait, while the men post profiles merely to give the women who they pay to mail something to look at to check them out.

D, my one clear Lavalife success, is an odd case, as she did not post her own profile anyway, but her friends did it for her. She did, however, vet the responses and pick me as a front-runner. And she has been a great mistress so far. But she would not post that sort of profile again, nor I think would she post in the 'Intimate Encounters' section of Lavalife again. So there is a sense in which she ought not to have been available to be found, as what she really wants is not casual sex but something a bit more romantic and emotionally charged.

Ashley Madison appears a bit raunchier than Lavalife, but it is very hard to tell what proportion of people are genuinely looking. The proportion of married/attached women is much higher than at Lavalife, but many of those are, I sense, merely flirting with the possibility of infidelity rather than actively pursuing it.

CL's high turnover makes it very addictive, and keeping up with the flood of posts can eat into your time significantly. The most frustrating thing is the very low response rate to e-mails sent to women who post. The lore that circulates is that many of the posts are fake - gay men, men collecting pictures, whatever. It is impossible to know how true that is. In my own case, I have perhaps been handicapped by using a picture that is unflattering - that at any rate is what A says, and I think D also said that I am much better looking in person than in that photograph. So I would perhaps have had a higher strike rate if I had a better picture. Perhaps I shall recruit A to take one for me - she seems willing to lend a hand.

I haven't done anything with men in a while, though I have toyed with the idea of having a blowjob every now and then, and CL is of course pretty good for that kind of hook-up. I used to think that men were almost always better at giving head than women, but D showed me that was not so, and I think A, with minimal instruction, could be almost D's equal.

But it is time to sleep now, as D will be here in the morning, for approaching six hours of sex, I would guess. As with J, I feel things with D ought to be winding down - but D does not think so, and the increasing mismatch between our moods and expectations is becoming a difficulty. I really would like to send her on to the next phase of her journey out of her miserable marriage and towards a more satisfying and happy life. But I suspect that all I can do in that regard, at the right time, is just to disappear from her life, at least for a while. And I don't think that is something that she will take as anything but a rejection.

Another quickie with A

Instead of a few hours with A, as I had hoped, she came for just an hour. I was a little disappointed - lying about talking and tangling would have been fun. But we are a very efficient pair, it turns out.

Her pants and shoes and socks were wet from the rain, so we put those in the dryer and went to bed. A little kissing, and then I went down on her. She tastes good - she gets very wet. With A a lot of pressure directly on her clit seems to work well, though when she was close to coming she asked me to lick her. Before that, I sucked her clit into my mouth and used my tongue on it, and she liked that too. She moves a lot, so she is really doing a lot of the work, which is as it should be, as she knows what gets her off better than I do.

Then she got on top and fucked me, having a really good time. She asked me what drove me wild, and of course it is pretty rare for me to be driven wild, except by D with the blowjobs. So I told A and she went to work with her mouth and hands, including a finger up my ass. After a while, we fucked, with me on top. Talking while fucking, A told me that she had visited another lover yesterday, and tried fucking in the way that we have, ie with me riding high, applying pressure, grinding a little but basically staying still, while she moves underneath, rocking up and down and squeezing. She said that it hadn't worked, and had in fact hurt, though the guy's cock is smaller than mine. I don't really understand and neither does she. Anyway she says she has never had a fuck like me, which of course is flattering. I don't know what other guys are up to - how come so many women tell me that I am the best lover they have had? I don't think there is anything special about me at all.

Anyway, A encouraged me to come in her so I did, very easily and enjoyably. Then we had a quick shower together and she left. I hope I can see her again later in the week, but that may be difficult for her.

So - an hour with A: great sex, good talk, all delightful. I assume that is it as far as Monday's adventures are concerned. Tomorrow, D.

How important stuff gets in the way

Sex is not that important, right? So when plans for a morning session with A are held hostage by a medical emergency in her family, who am I to complain? But it is not just that I have no right to complain; casual sex can be as casual as you like, but it is still sex with a person, not just a body. A is smart, honorable in the important ways I am sure, and so necessarily a person who will act virtuously. Time with her is therefore time found in the space left over by the exercise of virtue.

Am I that good a person? The blog is for others to judge. I should resist the temptation to argue on my behalf. But I claim to be doing what I am doing - the lying, cheating, and adultery - at no cost to anyone else. Point out the harm done, and I will think about feeling guilty. Absent that, I will just have pangs of guilt without any justification.

Guilt is a big topic, though, and deserves to be explored at length. Or handled intermittently anyway, with a picture building up slowly, like those printers that lay down only a few dots at each pass but ultimately produce rich detail.

Time to sleep. D may call in the middle of the night - should I leave the phone on or off?

The week ahead

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Sunday morning drive-by

The cancellation of my Saturday evening with A threatened to leave me without sex from Saturday luncthtime until Monday morning, when A is due to visit me at home. But D came to the rescue with one of her special Sunday morning drive-bys. She leaves home at some ungodly hour and picks me up; we drive to a spot and park; we get in the back. Today we began with cocksucking, which D excels at, and I had a couple of dry orgasms. Then we fucked for a while, then I went down on her, then we fucked a bit more, I went down on her again, and then we rested. I was inclined to leave it at that but D wanted to suck my cock some more and make me ejaculate; she didn't manage that, but in the course of trying I had a bunch more orgasms and she got so turned on that she asked me to go down on her again. Once she had come, I fucked her, and pulled out at the last second to spray all over her belly. Then of course I had to lick up my sperm and swap it with her. All extremely hot stuff, as always with D.

So now it is 10.30 am on Sunday, and with nothing else set up, the next fucking I do will almost certainly be A tomorrow morning. That, I predict, will be a lot of fun. Right now, I need to sleep.

But sometimes reality intervenes to slow you down anyway

I had everything in place to go spend a couple of hours with A this evening - but her husband suddenly decided to stick around with her rather than head home to the suburbs. So that was our plans stymied. Now we must wait until Monday - not very long, but still frustrating when you are both having such a good time.

A is now my favorite fuck. But I shall not be telling D that any time soon. J, sensibly, does not ask what the hell else I am up to, and K is similarly uninquisitive, though I think she would enjoy hearing about my various adventures and experiences.

A will be the best person to talk to of all, I think. She has really only been active as a liar, cheat and adulterer (LCA) since January, but she is certainly clocking up the adventures and experiences. Perhaps, depending on how things develop, I will ask her to contribute to the blog, as she has a lot to say. And the woman's side of the market is quite different.

The asymmetry between men and women in the straight sections of CL, in Lavalife, Ashley Madison, and so on, is colossal. A post by a woman on CL's Casual Encounters will probably generate hundred responses. A post by a man may produce none at all. So it is a market in which women hold most of the advantages. But the number of women who are pursuing no-strings-attached (NSA) sexual adventure is relatively small, so it may be that the majority of men who are reading posts and responding to them will get nowhere at all. Yet I have been moderately lucky - and with A at least there are a fair few others who have been so too. But J has hooked up with no-one but me, nor K, nor D. So A may be the anomaly.

I am extremely tired - up most of the night with D, in a nearby hotel. I think the level of sexual activity is also draining, though I have not come all that much; not at all with J on Thursday morning, and only once with A on Thursday afternoon; not with K on Friday morning, but once with D on Friday evening and then again with D on Saturday early; then with A at lunchtime today (Saturday). Keeping an erection has been pretty straightforward, with judicious dosages of Viagra on a background of Cialis.

Slow down? That would require me to resist temptation

An hour to spare so I went to see A, who was apartment-sitting for a family member. Great fucking for half an hour or so before I came inside her. Then fifteen minutes of chat and mutual praise. She is definitely my favourite fuck at the moment - she gets very wet but has a good grip with her cunt, moves well, likes the deep grinding style (other styles too, but that obviously really works for her), and is also very sensual.

I need to slow down

I really need to slow down. It is Saturday morning, and I am losing track of the goings-on of the the last couple of days. A blunt summary - I went over and fucked J on Thursday morning, then went to work for a while, then met A and spent three hours or so fucking her in a hotel, then went home, had phone sex with D late at night, hosted K for three and a half hours or so here at home on Friday morning, had a quickie (little fucking, went down on her and made her come, then fucked her in the ass) with D around 6.45 pm, and then went back to D again at midnight and spent approaching eight hours fucking, sucking, ass-fucking, napping.

A is in town, and maybe I will hook up with her somehow today, tonight , or tomorrow. And she is due over here on Monday morning. I am supposed to see D again Tuesday, J on Wednesday. Thursday looks free at the moment, and then my wife comes home on Friday.

The wonders of Craigslist and Lavalife! Mainly Craigslist - the source for J, K, and A. Lavalife has only ever yielded D, but she is the closest thing to a perfect mistress one could want, though a little clingy these days. But I think A is set to surpass her in almost every department. And A is a lot smarter, which makes a difference not just when one is between bouts but also during them.

Two physical types more different than J and A would be difficult to imagine. A might weigh under 100 lbs, J approaching 250. K, though on the plump side, is the youngest, at 25. D and A are both 45, J a few years younger than that. D is the wildest, the most voracious - but only with me. A, on the other hand, is working her way through all the plausible seeming men she can find, and contemplating women too.

And what the hell am I up to? A liar, a cheat, and an adulterer - but happy. I used to be honest, loyal, and faithful - and depressed.